it all started on the night dad was dying that nasty alzheimers you was never the same again it must have been the shock i moved in with you has you could not live alone i tried my hardest to care for you mom but my own health started to deteriate i looked after you for 5 years and then you was taken into hospital and eventually moved into a care home i felt so guilty mom that i could not care for you any longer but you did not even reconise me